samaritan woman story

How spiritual qualifications didn’t affect the Samaritan woman

I believe that God wants to use women to do great exploits in His Kingdom. But I’ve also realized that a lot of us women don’t believe this. We let fear and lack of spiritual qualifications affect us and stop us from doing what God has impressed upon our hearts to do, whether in the church or in the world.   

Are spiritual qualifications necessary?

I really used to believe that spiritual qualifications were necessary. And that God has a list and level that we should go to before He can use us in His Kingdom. These are some of the qualifications I used to think were necessary:

  1. Being able to fast for a long time (3 days and 3 nights, 7 days, 21 days, 40 days)
  2. Being able to pray for hours
  3. Consistently reading the Bible every single day
  4. Being able to quote verses from the Bible spontaneously
  5. Being a church leader

You may even add more to this list as well…

Now these qualities are great in and of themselves. In fact, the Bible wants us to do these things. We should desire to do all of them but God is not holding a checklist of all the things you need to do before He uses you in His kingdom.

Can I be honest? I struggle with doing most of the above and I believe a lot of great Christian women (and men) pastors, preachers, teachers struggle too.

Do I desire and keep striving to do them or even get better at it, yes I do. But I’ve learnt that waiting to be qualified before God uses you can stop you from experiencing what God has for you.

Why Christian women are affected by spiritual qualifications

  • Comparison trap-we compare ourselves with the other Christian women in our church or the ones we see online who seem more spiritually qualified than us
  • We don’t know God’s word- we limit ourselves to what we hear from other people and we don’t search out the Scriptures to hear straight from God
  • We don’t believe God speaks to us- we are waiting for the audible voice of God. We don’t realise that God is speaking to use daily in His word, through people, nature and circumstances
  • We don’t believe God’s grace-we still believe we have to work to be qualified. We don’t understand the concept of grace-God’s unmerited favour in our lives

Newsflash: The rules of God’s kingdom and the world are different. In the world, you are qualified first then you work. In God’s kingdom, you are called to work first then you are qualified while you work (it’s on the job training).

The Story of the Samaritan woman

In John 4, Jesus was alone at a well, after His disciples had gone into the city looking for food. And He asks a Samaritan woman who came to the well for a drink. John 4:9 says ‘Then the woman of Samaria said to Him, “How is it that You, being a Jew, ask a drink from me, a Samaritan woman?” For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.’

Jesus was asking her to do something (give her water) and she believed she was not qualified.


  1. She was a woman
  2. She was a Samaritan
  3. She was a sinner

Something happens in the conversation however, and her eyes are opened. Jesus tells her about her life- she had gone through 5 divorces. Jesus also revealed to her that He was the long awaited Messiah (John 4:15-26)

But then the disciples came back, with their list of spiritual qualifications for those who could talk with Jesus:

John 4:27 says ‘And at this point His disciples came, and they marveled that He talked with a woman; yet no one said, “What do You seek?” or, “Why are You talking with her?”

My guess is while the disciples might not have said anything, what they were thinking was written all over their faces and the Samaritan woman could see it. They deemed her unworthy and unqualified to be talking to Jesus.

Do you have people like this in your life? People who look down upon you and believe God can’t use you and maybe even tell you so-because of your past sins or even present circumstances, your educational background, your leadership position in church or how many years you’ve been in church.

Take a lesson from the Samaritan woman, she didn’t let the disciples’ response affect her. Rather she focused on the experience she had had with Jesus, the change in her heart, the words He had spoken to her.

That’s what ultimately matters. What God says about us, not what people say about us or what they think.

John 4:28-30 ‘The woman then left her waterpot, went her way into the city, and said to the men,“Come, see a Man who told me all things that I ever did. Could this be the Christ?” Then they went out of the city and came to Him.

And because the Samaritan woman allowed God to use her in a mighty way to share the gospel and didn’t let spiritual qualifications affect her (or any other qualifications like gender and ethnicity for that matter) this is how the story ends-a WHOLE CITY WAS SAVED!

John 4: 39 ‘And many of the Samaritans of that city believed in Him because of the word of the woman who testified, “He told me all that I ever did.”’

Wow! What an amazing story! Can we go back to the 5 qualifications we spoke about earlier?  I believe the Samaritan woman wasn’t a woman who fasted, quoted verses, prayed for hours, she was probably not a church leader and didn’t read her Bible daily. But she didn’t let her lack of ‘spiritual qualifications’ imposed by anyone affect her.

The Samaritan woman shared her testimony, that’s all she did and God did the rest. God is the one who worked on the rest of the people’s hearts to believe in Jesus and be saved.  

What action can you take today?

  • Have you ever disqualified yourself from being used by God in a big or small way? Write a list of those qualifications you think you need to have.
    • Then, I challenge you to read the story of the Samaritan woman’s story and see which of those qualifications she had-probably none. According to people, she was unqualified but in God’s eyes she was very qualified.
  • Believe God’s Word, after all it’s the ultimate truth.God is looking for an open heart, that’s all. A heart that is willing to follow, let Him lead and be the Shepherd.
    • People may tell you that you’re not qualified but don’t choose to let their words affect you if it’s contrary to what God says in His word
  • Remember this popular saying which is very true: ‘God does not call the qualified, He qualifies the called’.
  • Rely on the power of God. God is the One who enables us to do His work not our spiritual qualifications.  Don’t give yourself pressure to do it all in your own power and strength.

My encouragement to you:

Is God calling you to do something today? It could be sharing your testimony at church or sharing the Gospel with your non believer friend, starting a business or starting a Bible Study,  going into full time ministry or becoming a Sunday school teacher. What I know for sure is God equips us when we obey Him.

Let’s Pray:

Heavenly Father, thank you for the Samaritan woman’s story. Thank you that she is an example of someone who didn’t let spiritual qualifications affect her. Thank you that You use even those who are unqualified by human standards to show Your Power through them. I know you’ve been calling me to ___ (fill in the blank) and while I feel unqualified, I choose to trust you and obey you. Help me to act according to the leading of the Holy Spirit today in this area.

In Jesus name I pray. Amen

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  1. Michelle

    March 12, 2019 at 1:09 pm

    I absolutely love this and can relate in so many ways. When we try to meet the criteria in hopes that it will “get God’s attention”, we end up missing a lot of what He has for us by just being a “Mary”…. instead of a “Martha”. Thanks so much for sharing and especially for the prayer. Bless you!

  2. Hughneese

    March 13, 2019 at 12:43 pm

    This post was completely relatable and such a good reminder of God’s character amidst a world that pushes qualifications from every angle. May we really believe that God will use us wherever we are as long as our heart is willing.

  3. Javs

    March 13, 2019 at 4:59 pm

    Hi Tinashe,
    I read your blog regularly…
    I truly admire how you take out time to pour your heart out so that others can see the LIGHT OF HOPE that you have found somewhere down your journey of self discovery

    It’s amazing, the fact that you are creating awareness around how to be good and do good and how to be His representative and taking the word forward to spread it, to share enlightenment in all the ways possible…

    I remember you telling me vividly how you struggled but I have also witnessed how beautifully this has transformed you into a more positive and more open person in your understanding of life and its meaning and its deep connection with God in totality…

    Keep up the good work my friend… Keep writing.. May the strength of God be with you in whatever you do! May this light spread to as many people as possible. Amen!

  4. Shanté

    March 14, 2019 at 11:56 am

    Thank you for sharing this! It’s true, sometimes we disqualify ourselves when God has already qualified us!

  5. Diana

    March 14, 2019 at 11:57 am

    I love the three points you pointed out of the Samaritan:) Such an encouragement.

  6. Kiley @

    March 14, 2019 at 8:40 pm

    I love that you call out and name “spiritual qualifications.” It is so true that we come up with many excuses not to serve as we are called, and many of them stem from insecurity. Thank you for shedding light on this!

  7. Janene Eldred

    March 16, 2019 at 5:41 pm

    Thank you so much for your post! You are absolutely right..I think many people consider themselves (unqualified) for church leadership, but sometimes I think it is just an excuse to they don’t have to commit. God will equip us for what He calls us to do, that is for sure! I never thought I would be a Christian blogger!! Didn’t even realize that I like to write! Wow! But thank you Lord, that you are smarter than me, that’s for sure! God Bless you!

  8. Ogochukwu

    March 17, 2019 at 4:37 am

    Very powerful message. I feel like you are speaking directly to me. He doesn’t care about qualifications. The heart is all he looks at. You’re blessed!

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